However, many people act as though women are incapable of being the abuser in a relationship, only being able to be the victim.
Now, I'm not making fun at women who are in abusive relationships, I'm simply saying that sometimes it can be around the other way, with the woman abusing the man.
But, of course, if a man is getting abused he isn't suppose to say or do anything, since that isn't manly.
I remember while driving to uni one day the two hosts on the radio were talking about a recent squabble of domestic violence that occurred. A man called the police after his girlfriend repeatedly punched and kicked him and threw objects at him. However, here's the hilarious thing; when the cops arrive, what do they do? They immediately grab the guy, put him in handcuffs and haul him outside.
Since he was male, OBVIOUSLY he was the abuser, OBVIOUSLY the chick was the victim.
They can also abuse their own children; that isn't an exclusively male feature. Females are just as capable of beating and mentally breaking their own kids. Sometimes the mother is far worse then the father, yet because the mother is female, she is obviously the better parent all the time.
Also, I hate it how they have 'days'. In New Zealand there was a nation 'Stop violence against women day,' which was for domestic abuse. Soooo, men can't be the subject of violence, then?
Women can hit men as well, it's not exclusive to one gender.
Yeah, so many tend to forget it I always get mad when I'm reading something along the lines of "Stop violence against women" because I always think: "Well...If a man becomes a victim of abuse it's not important, or what?" Better would be something like: "Stop all domestic abuse/violence (against all people)" and not something so sexist.
I'm a woman, but I hate when Women are such bitches like that is so unfair, and very over-rated all that female protection, I really am aware that the mayor of cases are of female abuse, but all the persons just act like that is the only thing that matter, seriously, that news on the radio that you told... just... woooow, not only that poor guy have to deal with that stupid bitch, but go arrested?
I stopped talking to a "friend" of mine after she told me she had slapped her handicap boyfriend, and after she admitted shaking the wheelchair bound guy in anger. Poor dude has MS; but she takes out her frustrations out on him...its no wonder the state took away two of her kids.
OMG...... what a bitch and a w----..... I'm sorry for that, and with all the respect to you bit that friend of yours is horrible, treat like that to a guy in wheelchair? (sigh)... oh boy.....
She never learned to speak out, or to work through her emotions in an honest manner. I suspect she may have a form of autism (seeing how she has trouble expression emotions, an inability to express affection and a strong urge to sort items), though she claims to be diagnosed as being bipolar. I've never seen her form an honest loving bond with anybody, not even to the kids she gave birth to.
I always get mad when I'm reading something along the lines of "Stop violence against women" because I always think: "Well...If a man becomes a victim of abuse it's not important, or what?" Better would be something like: "Stop all domestic abuse/violence (against all people)" and not something so sexist.
poor kids......